When to Connect
Contemplating Divorce.
Perhaps you feel stuck and exhausted and aren’t sure whether divorce is the best next step to take. The hamster wheel of sadness, self-doubt, and fear is all too familiar, unfriendly territory. Simultaneously, you sit in negotiations with yourself asserting that you can tolerate the status-quo for just a little bit longer.
You wonder what divorce would look like for you and your family and cannot begin to imagine how you’ll find the strength, energy and clarity to survive.
What’s more, the expense and uncertainty of entering the family law system may serve as a solid barrier to your ability to determine what to do, especially if you anticipate a high-conflict divorce.
I have been in your shoes and have faced the decision-making fog. If you are curious about exploring the possibility of beginning anew, I am happy to link arms and do the work together.
During Divorce.
At this stage, you feel very overwhelmed by the legal process of divorce, the well-being of your children, the cost of divorce and how to survive as a single parent. You wish you had a relatable guide who can empathize with your sea of emotions and the many questions and concerns you face.
You are interested in the perspective of another woman who can relate and who has made it through this process. Maybe you seek an advocate who will patiently and compassionately help you manage the business of divorce as it relates to your time, expenses and goals. Perhaps you recognize that you are a highly emotional person and would value an objective set of eyes to review communication to stay grounded, clear and strategic.
If you are thinking you could benefit from the following, please know you don’t need to do this alone. I am here to walk beside you through the tunnel and help you see the light.
Post-Divorce.
The ink is dry and your divorce is official; however, you continue to struggle with a very high-conflict ex and realize your healing journey is still in motion. You crave acceptance and peace, yet you struggle with feelings of disappointment, anger, and need guidance toward a recovery plan.
Perhaps, co-parenting is a real struggle, and you find yourself very frustrated by every interaction and piece of communication. You may be curious about dating and yet scared and unsure as to how to put yourself out there and open your heart again. Your child(ren) may be exhibiting signs of divorce-related distress and you are eager to learn ways to support and nurture. Your ex may be dragging you back to court to financially drain your or seek revenge, and you may feel defeated by the continued conflict even after the divorce is final.
Let me help you feel confident, prepared, and excited about turning your wounds into scars, moving on gracefully, reinventing yourself and write you next chapter.